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how do I know if I’m a full fledged lesbian
6 upvotes, 12 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Anything. "how do I know if I’m a full fledged lesbian"
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Anonymous 2w

Can you imagine yourself in a happy relationship with a man or are you inserting yourself in a stereotypical straight relationship because thats a majority of the couples we see in media? The way I found out was having a man actually approach me romantically and all I felt was repulsion and irritation, regardless of how objectively attractive he was. I just couldn't imagine myself happy with a man.

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Anonymous 2w

What comes to mind when you first see this image?

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Anonymous 2w

Do you like the idea of a penis

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Anonymous 2w

Try having a relationship with a man, and not like a random frat guy hookup, but a genuine friendship that evolves into sex. If you enjoy that you’re probably into guys at least a little.

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Anonymous 2w

No one fucking cares if you like pussy dick or both

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I think so maybe idk 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Like honestly just watch some porn of a guy jerking off, if it does nothing for you or turns you off/disgusts you then that’s a good sign. Also the liking girls part.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

oh okay 👌

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I’m trying to figure this out rn, if it’s the attention or if i genuinely like em 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

👅👅👅👅

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

yea idk if it’s me being avoidant cuz I’m sexually attracted to men (but I sometimes don’t like the idea of their dick, I have to be in the mood) but romantically I am attracted to em 🤔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

That sounds like every woman I’ve ever met, honestly. If you find a man who respects that you want to go slow and don’t want to have sex unless you’re in the mood that’s a good option to test your ‘I might not be lesbian’ theory. Best of luck with your tests

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