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I REALLY like this guy. We’ve been talking for about a month as friends and I finally straight up told him yesterday. He’s open to it, but he told me he is very sexual. I said I’m not. What do I do?😭 I’m FtNB and pretty Asexual
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Anonymous 14w

I mean it sounds like you guys might not be very compatible, not that there’s anything wrong with you or him, it just doesn’t seem like you both want the same things out of a relationship.

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Anonymous 14w

The sexual incompatibility is going to cause tension or possible issues down the road. It may suck, but you’re likely not going to work out very well.

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Anonymous 14w

What’s FTNB?

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Anonymous 14w

Move on to someone that's your level

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Anonymous 14w

Like he has a high sex drive? Or he’s more kinky? Did he say?

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Anonymous 14w

You don’t have to be sexual to let someone have sex with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

Female to non-binary

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

It seems he has a high sex drive

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14w

If you’re not invested and eagerly participating, it’s not consensual, and is therefore sexual assault. Fuck you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

You can consent and just lay there.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14w
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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14w

So you’ve never had consensual sex is what I’m hearing.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

She has a very high sex drive because she cheated 😄

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

What?? Who?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

I’ve been single for the past 10 months. I’m not cheating on anyone lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

You can’t hear words in a screen. Something is seriously wrong with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14w

So you’re on drugs of some kind, got it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14w

“let someone have sex with you” bro views sex as an act done by one person to another instead of a mutual experience enthusiastically agreed upon by both parties 😭🫵

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14w

Outed himself as never having had actually consensual sex.

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