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Would this dress be too close to white for a wedding?
6 upvotes, 14 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Anything. "Would this dress be too close to white for a wedding?"
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Anonymous 7w

Yes

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Anonymous 6w

Personally Id just avoid anything where you need to ask tha question. No hate, I’m just a nervous creature and would rather be respectful

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Anonymous 7w

Ask the bride! It’s the easiest thing to do. “Hey, I know it’s your special day and want to make sure it’s still yours 😊. Is this dress too close to white? I think it’s cute, but I want to make sure you’re okay with it. Looking forward to celebrating you on your special day ❤️”

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Anonymous 6w

Really though, if you are questioning it then others will too.

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Anonymous 6w

When I have to ask someone if I should do something I have a doubt in my mind about it usually means I shouldn’t do it.

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Anonymous 7w

Nope

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Anonymous 6w

Absolutely not unless when you ask the bride she okays it, if you don’t wanna ask then no no no no no do not risk that put her away

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Anonymous 6w

Nah. Start some shit.

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Anonymous replying to -> lmao42069 7w

10/10

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Anonymous replying to -> lmao42069 6w

Unless you get a bride who doesn’t speak up for fear of offending someone or who hates conflict. They might go along when they really don’t want to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

I agree with you, but I also don’t see how my proposed framing would be introducing any conflict?

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Anonymous replying to -> lmao42069 6w

You might not see it. She might. She might think “if I tell her not to wear that it’ll upset her and she’ll be upset with me” sort of thing. Maybe she’s not like that. Maybe she is. I don’t know. You obviously would know her better than me. All I’m saying is people will avoid conflict of any kind by trying to avoid confrontation too. Or trying to avoid even possibly starting a confrontation of some kind.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

I mean the dress is mostly white. You know the rule about white. You must feel it’s questionable even having to ask. If it’s questionable, why push it? If I had something/anything I was going to wear to such an important event and I thought “this might stir up trouble but I’m not sure” then I’m just going to avoid it and not wear it. Why chance it? Why take the risk?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

It’s not that deep. OP asked. I gave a proposed form of questioning. If OP doesn’t wanna risk it, they already know they shouldn’t wear it.

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