I am in the same boat OP. It hurts like crazy and I want the best for her. But she is not done growing up. We want different things.

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Closure is just an illusion!! Getting back in contact with her will do nothing but hurt both of you and make it worse trust. Focus on yourself and move at your own pace. You don’t want someone who doesn’t want you all of the time. The absolute worst thing you can do is go back and put effort into someone who won’t do the same for you.

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Wym one sided, like how can u b sure

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