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How do you get your confidence back after a bad relationship? Bf and I broke up and I feel empty…
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Anonymous 2w

i feel this way too, but i’m trying to focus on other things and explore more about myself. invest in some hobbies or do something fun with some friends to get your mind off of things. you’ll slowly realize that there’s so much to see and develop without him. i hope your healing journey is amazing to you 🩷

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Anonymous 2w

How do you let one person wreck your self esteem?

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Anonymous 2w

You get a rebound or some casual sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Same. It’s hard rn tho bc I’m away for grad school and he was all I had here 😭 ty and I hope your healing journey is going well ❤️‍🩹

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

aww i’m so sorry! i get that emptiness feeling. it’ll all be okay in the end, i’m sure of it 🫂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

We’re in grad school together and all of my other friends have graduated and moved away, so he was the only form of community I had in person. It’s making this breakup hit a lot worse than my previous one where I had a closer support system.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Ma'am why did you let yourself become co dependent on some guy? Look at some point you got to stand on your own

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