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Anyone else find it a little weird when your friends won’t unfollow or unadd the guy who literally ruined your life??
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Anonymous 4w

Yes. It’s unsupportive of you from your friend. It means they don’t care enough about you to also remove a bad person from their life. It’s like being friends with (extreme example incoming) your best friends moms murderer. They ask you to cut them off because that person hurt them a bunch. But because that person didn’t directly hurt you you don’t see why it matters or that it doesn’t affect you.

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Anonymous 4w

Have you asked them to unfollow?

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Anonymous 4w

Uh you have a problem with him. We don't have to have that same problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yes. That’s the worst part. They just brush it off

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Hmm… seems weird.. If you haven’t already I would tell them it makes you uncomfortable. If they don’t acknowledge your discomfort and make changes… those are not your friends. No matter the circumstances even if THEY think it’s no big deal… if it’s a big deal for you.. it should be a big deal for them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Ew. If someone hurt your friend and you stay friends with them you’re a bad friend. A fake friend. Real friends support each other.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Not when it comes to you stupid ass social media bullshit. Social media isn't real

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

*you're

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

At the end of the day SHE allowed some man to ruin her life. HER friends had probably been telling her leave him and she didn't. But I got to stop being friends because of y'all's bullshit? GTFOH

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

You women are childish AF NOW

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Social media is 100% real 😂 or are we living in a simulation. Also not the assuming someone’s gender / sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I follow my friend’s abusive ex, but she never asked me to unfollow him. If she did, I would in a heartbeat. I think it’s just good for me to keep an eye on him

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