Anonymous #3 16h

what a rude response, this is clearly hurting her and you chose to be a dick abt it?

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Anonymous #7 15h

what does this mean

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Anonymous #5 14h

she gave him part of her lunch, but i’m still suspicious. it’s his first day back so they haven’t seen each other in a while

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Anonymous #4 14h

yeah sometimes, he can say the most stupid things that hurt my feelings before dates and stuff

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Anonymous OP 14h

That’s sounds like me and I say I love and would kill for my friends all the time. It may be harmless

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Anonymous OP 14h

OK that’s not so bad but her bringing him strawberries is very weird. Like they’re not some uncommon fruit he can’t just buy himself even at many gas stations. And her not bringing them for everyone but him specifically is weird. She knows what she’s doing. It’s weird if they’re close enough for her to bring him stuff but she doesn’t know about his gf. And him saying he’d kill for her is not great either. She’s not his bff so why would he feel that close to her…

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Anonymous OP 14h

I know what I would do but it’s your life. All I can say is to trust your gut. If you’re not one to randomly accuse then you feel weird about it for a reason. My baseline for what’s acceptable is: would I do the same thing if the roles were reversed? If so then let it go but if not then bring it up. How he reacts to your discomfort will be the real way to know what’s going on. If he jumps to calling you crazy instead of finding a compromise for both of you then I would leave.

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Anonymous #3 12h

As a dude please don’t be a dick. And it’s obv suspicious how he’s describing it

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Anonymous #12 11h

we just got off call where he mentioned that she calls him to tell him about how horrible her family life is, and he def wasn’t happy when i said that seemed like a flirty exchange

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Anonymous #5 11h

i agree w this

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Anonymous #15 11h

FINALLY someone else with fucking brain cells Thank you

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Anonymous #15 11h

i have been talking to him about it actually, i wasn’t asking the internet if he’s cheating on me i was asking if my thought process with the information i was given was crazy and mental gymnastics or not

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Anonymous OP 10h

No you aren’t being irrational and it is good to bring it up to him. Don’t downplay your emotions until he shows he’s truthful

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Anonymous #4 8h

which makes it any better how??

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Anonymous #16 8h

me when i redditmaxx

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Anonymous #17 8h

Because nothing ever happens with the work Wife

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Anonymous #4 8h

why have a work wife when you could just.. love and respect your girlfriend? i would never have a “work husband” that is so disrespectful

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Anonymous #17 8h

No work Wife is not about a love thing. It’s more about friendship with the people you think difficult with every single day it formed toward of emotional bond.

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Anonymous #4 8h

Who you go through difficult with*

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Anonymous #4 8h

then whats wrong with calling them your work bestie or just your friend? coworker? idk? work wife implies theres something emotional going on even if it is nothing physical. if my bf told me he had a work wife i would be pissed, like why do feel the need to call her that? i went through hell and back at my most recent job with some amazing people and guess what i refer to them as.. my friends 😁

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Anonymous #4 8h

like im picking up what youre putting down, it would be one thing if you said that and you were single but in a relationship its just so disrespectful. obvi if you and your girl are cool about it and she doesnt see an issue then thats really all that matters. and as long as you arent impeding on the “work wifes” relationship if shes in one

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Anonymous #17 8h

Never impede on the work wife needs to get some too

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Anonymous #3 4h

Ong let them be happy

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