
Oh I understand understand what you mean! I used family to mean two different "families." The first time I used family I used it to mean what it seems to mean to him... his parents and siblings and sometimes their kids. The second time I used it to mean what family should mean-wife and kid(s).
One, if it was because they were actually needy that would be different. But it’s not- they’ve always wanted to live a luxurious lifestyle that they’ve had no business living and even worse at the cost of their kids and grandkids who aren’t even middle class nonetheless high class or millionaires, aka they have no business having to fund the needlessly lavish lifestyle of other spoiled people. Two, even if they were needy this man has his own family that he needs to take care of and can’t make