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what do you think about the pleasure gap between men and ? i was telling my bf about how almost a quarter of women say they sometimes fake their orgasms, and while 95% of men orgasm during sex only around 65% of women do and he was shocked.
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Anonymous 4w

I’m not a woman so idk how it works but in my opinion I think it’s all a communication issue, if she cares about it and/or gets mad that she’s not orgasming. But on the other end, the woman should also be with a guy and in an environment that she feels comfortable enough to say she’s not getting off without getting embarrassed or be scared that the guy will get pissed off. I personally really like pleasuring my gf so I make sure she orgasms before I even start to do anything for me.

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Anonymous 4w

as a man in the 5% who rarely (like 1 in a hundred times type rarely) orgasms during sex, i can’t actually relate to this dynamic, but it makes sense if girls are on average more like me (takes a long time and a concentrated effort) and dudes on average bust after like 5 minutes lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

ok yeah bc me and my bf communicate and it’s amazing, but i also think a lot of men don’t care, like my ex bf kinda tried but ultimately it was all about him no matter if i communicated, so while i do think the woman should communicate i think men should also want to pleasure women too yk like u

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

the orgasm gaps between me and my exes were crazy tho, and it had nothing to do with their lack of effort (at least for most of them)

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