
I would stop being her friend. I would be uncomfortable if my partner still talked to someone they slept with while they both wanted to be friends. “If they’re still friends, what’s stopping them from doing it again?” Is what I’d think. Id js go ghost. Don’t need to unfollow or anything, id just stop talking and interacting with them entirely
Personally I wouldn’t give a shit as long as you didn’t try to hide it from me and didn’t have any feelings or intentions towards her. But I’m also friends with my ex and completely platonic, so like. I think I care less than most. If I’m dating you, I trust you. If I trust you, it’s okay.