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I hooked up w my friend about a year ago. None of us wanted anything serious w each other. I’m still sort of in contact w her bc of the friend group. How could this affect my future relationships?
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Anonymous 2w

I would stop being her friend. I would be uncomfortable if my partner still talked to someone they slept with while they both wanted to be friends. “If they’re still friends, what’s stopping them from doing it again?” Is what I’d think. Id js go ghost. Don’t need to unfollow or anything, id just stop talking and interacting with them entirely

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Anonymous 2w

Personally I wouldn’t give a shit as long as you didn’t try to hide it from me and didn’t have any feelings or intentions towards her. But I’m also friends with my ex and completely platonic, so like. I think I care less than most. If I’m dating you, I trust you. If I trust you, it’s okay.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Would you tell your partner?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Personally, I don’t like harboring info that I know would hurt my partner. I try to be as open as possible. So I would disclose this if I were asked about partners I’ve had

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