Ask Anything on Sidechat | talking to men on this app has been super fun, but there is an alarming number of them who are basing their opinions of sex and women from porn. i’ve been attempting to gently educate them but the misconceptions are wild!

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Ask Anything 1d

talking to men on this app has been super fun, but there is an alarming number of them who are basing their opinions of sex and women from porn. i’ve been attempting to gently educate them but the misconceptions are wild!

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Anonymous 1d

it’s genuinely changed my opinion of men bc wdym you use anonymity to talk to women like THIS? the amount of dms and comments ive gotten even when im posting in girl talk which is SUPPOSED to be a woman’s only community is disgusting

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Anonymous 23h

I’m a guy and dead ass I just thirst trap guys and lead them on and make them do crazy shit for me. It gives me a chuckle and I make them feel bad at the end. Hopefully it teaches them a lesson :)

Anonymous 1d

Ew, like how

Anonymous 16h

Ima gay men and the amount of times guys assumed I was a girl and was being soooo weird. I’m praying for yall🙏

Anonymous 1d

It’s honestly sad to see it too

Anonymous 23h

the men in these comments defending pedos and pervs are proving the point. like you're NOT helping y'all's cause

Anonymous 1d

I feel the main reason, as a man myself, is the general inability for either side to talk to each other. If men could interact with women more than they do porn that might change.

Anonymous 23h

SEEE SEE SEE THIS WHY I SAID THAT WE NEED TO EVALUATE HOW WE CREATE VISUAL PORN ON THE BOOK CLUB COMMUNITY AND SOME BITCHASS WAS LIKE “wElL hOw aRE yoU gOnnA tElL peOpLe whAt gOoD pOrn iS” LIKE THIS IS WHY DUMBASS THIS IS WHY ugh

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Anonymous 22h

its genuinely fucking disgusting, there are other platforms, use yikyak for topic discussions oriented around your college or leave 😭🙏

Anonymous 7h

Example?

Anonymous 21h

if it means anything i’d like to apologize for most men on this app, i swear we’re not all like that😭

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Anonymous 20h

Its not a men thing (well it kinda is) more like a yikyak problem where most dudes on here are the same ones on reddit etc

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Anonymous 20h

Come teach me some sex baby

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Anonymous 1d

You’re talking to boys

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Anonymous 22h

Damn bro women think they are Saints or something

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Anonymous 23h

Men using apps are using them for a reason, as are you. Set you expectations accordingly, or meet people in the real world.

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Anonymous

#3 1d

literally💀🤦‍♀️

Anonymous

#3 1d

it’s deadass made me a borderline “it’s all men” believer 😭 the guys on this app are disgusting

Anonymous

#4 1d

no literally 😭 like ofc i know it’s not ALL men… but every single time it’s a man. and even if other men aren’t sending dms or comments like that, they’re upvoting it. or defending them. or just acting like it’s not a big deal bc it’s the internet

Anonymous

#3 1d

like the fetish bait on this app…bruh🤦‍♀️

Anonymous

OP 1d

omg it’s disgusting. it happens in EVERY community where there are men it’s like a plague

Anonymous

#3 1d

“niche questions for sorority girls” “women, tell me about you best fart🙇🏼‍♀️” like…bitch…

Anonymous

#3 1d

wait girl i have to give you this ss of a convo i just had im fucking dying

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Anonymous

OP 1d

What the hell. As a man reading this this is insane

Anonymous

OP 1d

Diabolical

Anonymous

neon_green_star 1d

yeah it just got worse and worse but i blocked him 💀 sadly not the worst thing a guy has said to me on this fuckass app

Anonymous

#7 1d

would you consider 50 year olds “boys”

Anonymous

#7 1d

she’s not though. she’s talking to men. minimizing it and acting like only boys behave this way does nothing to actually fix the problem. you’re exactly who i was talking about in my comment about how even men who don’t act like that aren’t much better 😭

Anonymous

OP 1d

oh my god i think i’ve had that exact convo 😭😭 why are they so WEIRD

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Anonymous

#3 1d

Oh please 🙄 if you want to go out and meet real people, get off apps.

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Anonymous

#7 1d

?? who said anything about wanting to meet people 😭😭

Anonymous

#7 1d

dawg if they’re anything like these mfs, i’d rather just die

Anonymous

#11 23h

Use your thinker, if you got one

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Anonymous

#11 23h

so men use YIKYAK for sexting…? literally get on tinder if you’re that desperate that’s not what this app is for

Anonymous

#7 23h

i had a 30 year old in my dms. most are not boys 😭

Anonymous

#11 23h

these people are still real people!! and i’ll help where i can! it’s just hard to see how badly stereotypes and social media have impacted our social skills

Anonymous

neon_green_star 23h

you should see the other shit they say 😭 every dm from a man on here is like that and i don’t even post horny shit they’re just hella weird

Anonymous

#11 22h

Yes people are still real people and at the end of the day. I will admit both men a women do use Yik Yak for sexual shit (including me F19 btw) mainly because of the easy access to anonymity but I do agree it is ridiculous the amount of weird shit they do be saying. Stay on the kinky and horny communities for that shit bruh.

Anonymous

#3 22h

There’s gotta be a good 50% of guys that aren’t like this. These mfs js put a bad rep on us which puts prejudices on all guys

Anonymous

#14 22h

Just gotta think correctly, I’m glad that I don’t have to deal with any of this. Even though I’m a guy, I genuinely don’t care what anyone says about anything if it’s on an anonymous app cause it might be your friends just trying to fuck with you all the time 😂

Anonymous

#6 22h

Guys doing ts online though makes women more cautious of men in person, whereas guys who are weird online never have balls to act in person

Anonymous

#3 19h

This pisses me off so much too like “oh those weren’t real men, those were little boys”

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Anonymous

#9 19h

I guess you’re pissed off then

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Anonymous

#10 18h

doings God’s work

Anonymous

#14 17h

It’s probably less than 50%, but the main issue comes from the men who enable/defend that behavior and dismiss women who complain about it. They definitely make up the bigger percentage

Anonymous

#20 17h

perfect visual omg

Anonymous

#13 16h

No they just don’t do this weird ass creepy shit that men love to do all day😭😭 fucking weirdos

Anonymous

#7 16h

Yes

Anonymous

#4 16h

So yikyak is for women to bitch about stuff but men can’t?

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Anonymous

#23 16h

The way men get so disgusted with me after I tell them I’m a gay man makes me think they know that being predatory is wrong, because they hate the feeling of (in their mind) being on the other end of it.

Anonymous

#23 16h

they get pissed bc they can’t pull one over on you. keep on doing ts king

Anonymous

#9 16h

Listen we don’t hate we don’t like gay people that’s just what it is

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Anonymous

#13 16h

You and everyone who upvoted this post is legitimately stupid

Anonymous

OP 16h

responded to the sorority girl one unknowingly and it was a fucking feeder asking "did any hot mean girls in your sorority get fat" 🤢🤢

Anonymous

#13 15h

And we don’t like you either. Being desperate is embarrassing. Get a life

Anonymous

#13 13h

What can I do to make you like me? 🥺

Anonymous

#9 13h

BYE

Anonymous

#23 13h

Stfu I’m trying to impress the YikYak trade girl 🙄 I get so wet for a man who has skidmarks 😍 😍

Anonymous

#26 7h

dm me and i’ll enlighten you on some horror stories…

Anonymous

#23 7h

Maybe bc ur a gay “man” and therefore talk and text like a female… kinda makes sense to me. Not sure what else you’d expect

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Anonymous

#27 7h

That’s not the point of my post the point of my post is y’all are desperate

Anonymous

#3 4h

It’s not all men. Nowhere close to that actually, but the men who are doing this do it often and aren’t subtle about it so it seems like it’s more people than it is

Anonymous

#13 2h

no one said anything about bitching about stuff. this is about men who like to sexually harass women in their dms. you even saying that is part of the problem bc you’re just avoiding the actual point since yk it’s true

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Anonymous

#4 52m

well said, these mfs worry me on the fact they in college and cant read 💀