Ask Anything on Sidechat | talking to men on this app has been super fun, but there is an alarming number of them who are basing their opinions of sex and women from porn. i’ve been attempting to gently educate them but the misconceptions are wild!

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Ask Anything 11w

talking to men on this app has been super fun, but there is an alarming number of them who are basing their opinions of sex and women from porn. i’ve been attempting to gently educate them but the misconceptions are wild!

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Anonymous 11w

it’s genuinely changed my opinion of men bc wdym you use anonymity to talk to women like THIS? the amount of dms and comments ive gotten even when im posting in girl talk which is SUPPOSED to be a woman’s only community is disgusting

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Anonymous 11w

Anonymous 11w

I’m a guy and dead ass I just thirst trap guys and lead them on and make them do crazy shit for me. It gives me a chuckle and I make them feel bad at the end. Hopefully it teaches them a lesson :)

Anonymous 11w

Ew, like how

Anonymous 11w

Ima gay men and the amount of times guys assumed I was a girl and was being soooo weird. I’m praying for yall🙏

Anonymous 11w

It’s honestly sad to see it too

Anonymous 11w

the men in these comments defending pedos and pervs are proving the point. like you're NOT helping y'all's cause

Anonymous 11w

I feel the main reason, as a man myself, is the general inability for either side to talk to each other. If men could interact with women more than they do porn that might change.

Anonymous 11w

SEEE SEE SEE THIS WHY I SAID THAT WE NEED TO EVALUATE HOW WE CREATE VISUAL PORN ON THE BOOK CLUB COMMUNITY AND SOME BITCHASS WAS LIKE “wElL hOw aRE yoU gOnnA tElL peOpLe whAt gOoD pOrn iS” LIKE THIS IS WHY DUMBASS THIS IS WHY ugh

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Anonymous 11w

its genuinely fucking disgusting, there are other platforms, use yikyak for topic discussions oriented around your college or leave 😭🙏

Anonymous 11w

if it means anything i’d like to apologize for most men on this app, i swear we’re not all like that😭

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Anonymous 11w

Its not a men thing (well it kinda is) more like a yikyak problem where most dudes on here are the same ones on reddit etc

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Anonymous 11w

Come teach me some sex baby

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Anonymous 11w

You’re talking to boys

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Anonymous 11w

Damn bro women think they are Saints or something

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Anonymous 11w

Men using apps are using them for a reason, as are you. Set you expectations accordingly, or meet people in the real world.

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Anonymous

#3 11w

literally💀🤦‍♀️

Anonymous

#3 11w

it’s deadass made me a borderline “it’s all men” believer 😭 the guys on this app are disgusting

Anonymous

#4 11w

no literally 😭 like ofc i know it’s not ALL men… but every single time it’s a man. and even if other men aren’t sending dms or comments like that, they’re upvoting it. or defending them. or just acting like it’s not a big deal bc it’s the internet

Anonymous

#3 11w

like the fetish bait on this app…bruh🤦‍♀️

Anonymous

OP 11w

omg it’s disgusting. it happens in EVERY community where there are men it’s like a plague

Anonymous

#3 11w

“niche questions for sorority girls” “women, tell me about you best fart🙇🏼‍♀️” like…bitch…

Anonymous

#3 11w

wait girl i have to give you this ss of a convo i just had im fucking dying

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Anonymous

OP 11w

What the hell. As a man reading this this is insane

Anonymous

OP 11w

Diabolical

Anonymous

neon_green_star 11w

yeah it just got worse and worse but i blocked him 💀 sadly not the worst thing a guy has said to me on this fuckass app

Anonymous

#7 11w

would you consider 50 year olds “boys”

Anonymous

#7 11w

she’s not though. she’s talking to men. minimizing it and acting like only boys behave this way does nothing to actually fix the problem. you’re exactly who i was talking about in my comment about how even men who don’t act like that aren’t much better 😭

Anonymous

OP 11w

oh my god i think i’ve had that exact convo 😭😭 why are they so WEIRD

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Anonymous

#3 11w

Oh please 🙄 if you want to go out and meet real people, get off apps.

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Anonymous

#7 11w

?? who said anything about wanting to meet people 😭😭

Anonymous

#7 11w

dawg if they’re anything like these mfs, i’d rather just die

Anonymous

#11 11w

Use your thinker, if you got one

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Anonymous

#11 11w

so men use YIKYAK for sexting…? literally get on tinder if you’re that desperate that’s not what this app is for

Anonymous

#7 11w

i had a 30 year old in my dms. most are not boys 😭

Anonymous

#11 11w

these people are still real people!! and i’ll help where i can! it’s just hard to see how badly stereotypes and social media have impacted our social skills

Anonymous

neon_green_star 11w

you should see the other shit they say 😭 every dm from a man on here is like that and i don’t even post horny shit they’re just hella weird

Anonymous

#11 11w

Yes people are still real people and at the end of the day. I will admit both men a women do use Yik Yak for sexual shit (including me F19 btw) mainly because of the easy access to anonymity but I do agree it is ridiculous the amount of weird shit they do be saying. Stay on the kinky and horny communities for that shit bruh.

Anonymous

#3 11w

There’s gotta be a good 50% of guys that aren’t like this. These mfs js put a bad rep on us which puts prejudices on all guys

Anonymous

#14 11w

Just gotta think correctly, I’m glad that I don’t have to deal with any of this. Even though I’m a guy, I genuinely don’t care what anyone says about anything if it’s on an anonymous app cause it might be your friends just trying to fuck with you all the time 😂

Anonymous

#6 11w

Guys doing ts online though makes women more cautious of men in person, whereas guys who are weird online never have balls to act in person

Anonymous

#3 11w

This pisses me off so much too like “oh those weren’t real men, those were little boys”

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Anonymous

#9 11w

I guess you’re pissed off then

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Anonymous

#10 11w

doings God’s work

Anonymous

#14 11w

It’s probably less than 50%, but the main issue comes from the men who enable/defend that behavior and dismiss women who complain about it. They definitely make up the bigger percentage

Anonymous

#20 11w

perfect visual omg

Anonymous

#13 11w

No they just don’t do this weird ass creepy shit that men love to do all day😭😭 fucking weirdos

Anonymous

#7 11w

Yes

Anonymous

#4 11w

So yikyak is for women to bitch about stuff but men can’t?

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Anonymous

#23 11w

The way men get so disgusted with me after I tell them I’m a gay man makes me think they know that being predatory is wrong, because they hate the feeling of (in their mind) being on the other end of it.

Anonymous

#23 11w

they get pissed bc they can’t pull one over on you. keep on doing ts king

Anonymous

#9 11w

Listen we don’t hate we don’t like gay people that’s just what it is

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Anonymous

OP 11w

responded to the sorority girl one unknowingly and it was a fucking feeder asking "did any hot mean girls in your sorority get fat" 🤢🤢

Anonymous

#13 11w

And we don’t like you either. Being desperate is embarrassing. Get a life

Anonymous

#13 11w

What can I do to make you like me? 🥺

Anonymous

#9 11w

BYE

Anonymous

#23 11w

Stfu I’m trying to impress the YikYak trade girl 🙄 I get so wet for a man who has skidmarks 😍 😍

Anonymous

#23 11w

Maybe bc ur a gay “man” and therefore talk and text like a female… kinda makes sense to me. Not sure what else you’d expect

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Anonymous

#27 11w

That’s not the point of my post the point of my post is y’all are desperate

Anonymous

#3 11w

It’s not all men. Nowhere close to that actually, but the men who are doing this do it often and aren’t subtle about it so it seems like it’s more people than it is

Anonymous

#13 11w

no one said anything about bitching about stuff. this is about men who like to sexually harass women in their dms. you even saying that is part of the problem bc you’re just avoiding the actual point since yk it’s true

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Anonymous

#4 11w

well said, these mfs worry me on the fact they in college and cant read 💀