
There’s cool guys out there. Just meet someone you like and hangout a lot before you even kiss, eventually you’ll be in a relationship and have sex, sometimes the hangouts might lead to sex (guilty) but if he’s texting, initiating hangouts and helping you run errands then you knows he’s a nice guy. F21 PS you are not stupid for being worried
1. Your advice is terrible and reflects on you as a terrible person 2. You are literally advocating for treating others horribly. You do not get to be upset because someone called you horrible 3. She explicitly says “if I were to get into a relationship” and is concerned with being used by a man. Pretty obvious what she wants.
Well you’re on the internet spreading hatred. Doesn’t really seem like you’re all too happy. And generally, people who are “winning” don’t need to tell others that they’re winning. You seem like a shallow, hateful narcissist, and I’m sorry for whoever has to interact with you on a regular basis.
My intention wasn’t to change you I dont even think you can be changed Your problem is that healthy romantic relationship are unfathomable to you. You had shitty experiences? Sorry, that sucks But no need to negatively rain on anyone elses parade instead of just giving constructive advice
Now, I personally think it’s fine to have sex a lot. Hell, I think it’s fine for it to be the majority of your hanging out. My boyfriend and I fuck about 80% of the time we’re together. It’s not because that’s all either of us wants to do, but we’re both more stay-in kinds of people, and we watch a lot of movies, or cuddle, or play games, and one thing leads to another because we are both attracted to each other and like sex lol. Never feel guilty for having sex.