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How do you date? I’m 23 and I’ve never had a relationship. Mainly because I wasn’t that interested. I’m curious about it now but I feel like I’m so late to the game. I text too fast? Convos keep dying? I’m getting ghosted? WHATS HAPPENING??? (23F)
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Anonymous 15h

In a similar boat and it’s really just about finding the right person. When people jump from relationship to relationship it’s bc they don’t know/like to be alone. As much as it sucks to say be grateful you can go on by yourself bc a lot of people can’t, and there’s nothing wrong with you you just haven’t found your person 🫶

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Anonymous 17h

First question you should ask yourself is what is your intentions of dating?

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Anonymous 9h

On the man’s end dating gets treated like a game with high score. It is going to take time finding a guy that isn’t playing that game. Most get locked into serious relationships. They are out there. Just a small proportion

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Anonymous 18h

I’m in the same boat, except I literally still find it repulsive. Love the idea of dating but irl… no thank u. (21F)

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Anonymous 8h

everyone like to talk abt themselves especially men ask them a lot abt them selves to keep the convo going then just talk like you would to any other friend with light flirting then go from there

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Anonymous 8h

maybe bad advice bc i’m 16 but i am currently in my 3rd relationship(tg 8 months) and have been in 2 other 8 month relationships. for all 3 i just randomly texted them even when i didn’t know them and kept texting and hanging out to get to know them, flirted a lil so they knew i liked them then eventually they usually ask and if they don’t i ask if they are gonna ask then go from there

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

Have fun, maybe and hopefully fall in love?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7h

This is good advice. Keep in touch! Little secret, when a girl initiates regular it really endears a guy to them. We have to pursue all the time. It feels really nice to feel wanted and thought of

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