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i feel my bf hates texting me or idk i feel he he is threatening me. idk why tho what’s so bad abt telling me a joke? he says he tells jokes to his friends all da time , but when i ask he basically telling me we won’t ever text again. is dis rls worth it
3 upvotes, 8 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Anything. "i feel my bf hates texting me or idk i feel he he is threatening me. idk why tho what’s so bad abt telling me a joke? he says he tells jokes to his friends all da time , but when i ask he basically telling me we won’t ever text again. is dis rls worth it"
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Anonymous 6d

This lacks context, but based purely on what you have here, I’m sorry to say, but it looks like he doesn’t like you. Unfortunately, many people choose to stay in relationships for some form of preserving self-worth or to feel in a way that they’re”accomplished” (but in a materialistic sense). I suggest self-reflecting on your relationship with him and the treatment he gives you. Are there any behaviors that you’re tolerating just because you’re in a relationship?

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Anonymous 5d

This doesn’t sound like a safe and loving relationship. I hope you can find the love you seek

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Anonymous 5d

Drop him

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Anonymous 6d

“Do x again and I will punish you by doing y”. That’s exactly what it sounds like. He’s being punitive with you and that isn’t how you talk to someone you love or at least deeply care for. You should tell him he makes you feel uncomfortable and just leave him and let his ass be.

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Anonymous 5d

Dump him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

You need to respect yourself by not allowing him to disrespect you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

i feel like yea i’m just tolerating him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Tolerating disrespectful or hurtful behaviors are the main downfalls of most relationships Typically, one or both partners end up feeling neglected by not feeling seen, heard, or known. Then, they seek those experiences from external sources—this is why people cheat physically or emotionally Staying longer on the wrong train will not magically make you feel like you’re on the right train

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