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Is it bad to be with a 18/19 year old guy if I’m 21
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Anonymous 1w

No

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Anonymous 1w

No. If it's legal, it's fine

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Anonymous 1w

No

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Anonymous 1w

No

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Anonymous 1w

Too many people shaming age gaps on here anyways. As long as it’s legal

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Anonymous 1w

It’s not.

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Anonymous 1w

Boo!!!🍅🍅🍅

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Anonymous 1w

18 pushing it a little 😭 but i mean its legal. 19 if he’s so so so so so gorgeous.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Legal is legal.😑

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

16 is legal in my state but that’s gross to me. op’s question wasn’t about legality. she knows the law. i gave MY personal opinion as a fellow 21 year old woman. idk why yall probably 35 yr olds want to feel so accepted in your personal choices to date/hu w ppl as young as legally possible. ITS AN OPINION!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

No 18 is real legal worldwide.If cougars go after young men so can older men as long as it’s legal and consensual.😑

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

y’all are the people who tell people that they hate waffles because they say they like pancakes. i never said it wasn’t legal…. this post wasn’t about law at all. girl was asking for opinions, key word: OPINIONS based on the age of the men she wants to have sex with. i, someone her age, gave my opinion while ALSO saying that it is legal. I KNOW IT IS LEGAL. i know the law. you’re only talking about law which is why i brought up the age of consent in my state which is the legal age in most states

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

continue to play dumb elsewhere. your personal opinion doesn’t have to be mine. and yes 16 is legal and consensual in most of the united states and most of the world. age of majority is not age of consent in most of the world. i wasn’t talking about law. in MY opinion, law ≠ not possibly weird but in yours it does. ok, great. i never said it was illegal.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

but have fun with your 12th grade sex partners. it’s legal, i don’t like it but i recognize that it is legal. because, again, i never said it was illegal. legal consent is determined by law, which i understand. but don’t try to convince me to yearn for 18 year old penis. we all have the right to judge. i didn’t sexually want 17 years old at 20 and i still don’t want those boys now at 21. and that is ok!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3d

I like Ihop and Eggos,i’m not playing dumb you are.Then y’all complain of older going after younger but never holding younger ones responsible.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3d

Then consent and maturity should both be same in whole world.If teenagers do drugs,sex,play dumb but know law then they’re old enough to do other adult things to like get job,pay bills/taxes,be responsible.😑

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

teenagers can do all of those things… like i said, ik the law, i am not saying age gaps are illegal. i said that i don’t have to like them because they are legal. you’re talking about wanting to lower age of majority and force people to have to work younger because you want to fuck teens so bad. all i literally said was that i wouldn’t be with an 18 yr old as a 21 year old. i know it’s legal but i don’t have to like it just because it’s legal.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

there are not laws surrounding ages to do most drugs because most recreational drugs are ILLEGAL. idk why you’re telling me like i control legislation. younger people are not responsible for the actions of older people. older people know better and have been the age of the younger person. stop trying to convince to fuck an 18 yr old. no thanks. you’re so…. do what you do and stop trying to make ppl agree. you’re making no sense at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2d

No I didn’t say that,ur trying to lower age.I said they should do other responsible adult stuff and also get same punishment for doing bad things.

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