
I thought of that beforehand. I said she had to send a video even if it was only a few seconds long. She had to say “our code word is ___ “ which I had in our texts. And she had to say what she wanted. Even if it was only saying she wanted me to act out CNC as a fetish/kink with her.
Thank you for saying so. I think it’s my obligation to protect myself as well as the other person involved. And avoid anyone ending up on the bad end of someone playing dangerous games if you know what I mean. If it’s CNC or any other wild kink I usually insist on a safe word too. Other times it’s been “yellow” and “red” with a girl so if it’s new and scary but she wants to keep going she can say “yellow” and I slow it down. “Red” means full stop.